Letting Go Of A Broken Bond

We all know the concept of how doors open and close. This same concept can be applied to our relationships every day.

In the same way doors open, relationships can open doors in our hearts, and these doors could later be shut.

This applies to all relationship types. They're a vital part of our very existence as humans.

As humans, we meet new and different people every day. This could be physical or online.

This continuous cycle tends to start with acquaintances before building strong relationships.

Any kind of relationship opens a new door. There are a lot of emotions attributed to these doors depending on us.

Have you ever thought a particular person came into your life for a particular reason? If you have, then you're not alone.

When they probably left for whatever reason, I'm sure it left a scar. Healing these scars can sometimes be hard.It could even tend to take its toll on our way of life.

There are a lot of reasons these doors could close. It could start with a quarrel, or a misunderstanding, or sometimes they just go for no obvious reason and you're left dazed.

Now you're left there wondering if there was something you did wrong.

You're trying so hard to understand what went wrong, but you can't just nail it. Closing these already open doors isn't easy.

It's not simple to live with losing someone you had a bond with, no matter what kind of bond you both shared.

It's not easy, but here are four simple tips that might help;

Embrace your emotions. You just lost a relationship; even if it wasn't an intimate one, it would still hurt just as much.

A lot of feelings will be going through you, let them flow. Whatever you feel; fury, grief, agony, let it all out. You're human, and these feelings are what make you one.

Your emotions make you human but never let them dictate your actions.

Accept the truth that it has occurred, whether or not you have done your best to hang onto it and move on. Acceptance is the first step to moving on.

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  Reminisce on how much greatness you brought to their lives. This provides some peace of mind knowing that you provided good energy.

You're not necessarily forgetting about the quarrels and arguments since they played a role in creating the connection.

You'd rather concentrate on the good than the unpleasant.

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  Reconnect with things that make you joyful. As humans, we tend to bind our emotions to these doors. This might happen intentionally or subconsciously.

The doors shut, and it's like you can't be joyful again. The harsh fact is that before they arrived, you had things that made you happy. You have to go back to those things.

They're different for everyone, it may be music, gaming, or reading.

Everyone has something suitable for them. Whatever it is for you, you'll need to search within yourself and discover it.

Nobody should ever be accountable for how you feel. Don't give someone that much power over you because you'll almost always end up hurt.

Acknowledge your health. It's fairly natural for things that pertain to the heart to impact our health.

It might be cognitively, emotionally, or even physically based. That's how important these doors are in our lives.

You need to realize that your stability is serious business, and only you can keep it intact. You should do it at all costs because it affects our daily lives and productivity.

These recommendations may not get the work entirely done, but they're surely going to set you on the right path.

You're stronger than you realize. You'll get through this as every other thing life has thrown at you.

You'll miss these doors, but you've got a whole life ahead of you. So don't let one closed door stop you from opening new ones.